Why do couples fight alot?

I thought that relationships are suposed to be love and roses but its not that. There are times when I just have a nice time with her and there are times when we argue like cats and dogs.Why do couples fight alot?
For a very long time its been love and roses. For a very long time we haven't fought. Its as simple as, there is nothing to fight about.


We always have a great time together, Were always laughing or having fun. Even with something as mundane as cooking dinner. We joke and dance and play with our 2 kids. We rough house, we do whatever but its a lot of fun.





Why do we need to fight to have a healthy relationship? Why do we need to argue to be considered normal? What is normal? My normal is having a house that is full of love, laughter and happiness. My normal is getting along extremely well with my husband. My normal is having great days/evenings with the people that I love the most.





Is there anything wrong with that?





Oh and we just had a baby 4 weeks ago..so isn't this suppose to be one of the hardest times in a marriage?





Depends on who your asking.Why do couples fight alot?
I hear that marriage is like an amusement park:


The rides last 1 minute, but the lines last an hour.


Enjoy the ride!
Its normal鈥?I mean if it was fine and dandy the WHOLE TIME it would honestly become boring and dull. Discussions or arguments are very healthy, just as long as there is no disrespect or abuse. Its normal and great to have discrepancies, at the end it pulls you more closer together as one and understands how the other is and can鈥檛 leave out the make up s e x ! that鈥檚 always nice
Because the man is always right and the woman can't deal with it, so she starts an argument.
';...love and roses...';? Really? All relationships have ups and downs. You've been watching too many Walt Disney movies.
its just there because its not always going to be perfect times





buit dont leave the good times behind just because bad times came








good luck :)