Sunday, May 9, 2010

How to gay couples have kids?

i've never met a gay person... and it's sorta just not something i'm comfortable asking my parents.How to gay couples have kids?
they one adopt or artificial insiminationHow to gay couples have kids?
You probably have met a gay person, you probably just didn't know it.





Gay couples can have children by adoption or via a surrogate mother. If they are a Lesbian couple, one of them can either do it the old fashioned way, or they can be artificially inseminated.
for females you could be artifically planted but that's hard for the man.


Adoption is the only way.





My next door neighbors in Belgium were gay and they were extremely nice and very private people. If I had to live next to any of them, I would want them. they just had a sense of respect for others around them. I appreciated that and I miss them.
I have friends who are gay. They have 2 children together. Here's what they did. They found a woman friend who was also gay(lesbien) who didn't want to be in a relationship. She agreed to have a baby for them. They used a turkey baster at home!!! The first child is now 8 she is biologically Ryan's and the other is now 4 and she is biologically Bob's. Both times, the same woman had the child...same way. Home insemination. ok...weird, yes. weirder...THEY ALL LIVE TOGETHER!!! (Gay guys, gay mom, two daughters!!!)
Usually either adoption or invitro fertilization (take a donor egg if it is two guys, or donor sperm if it is two girls and put the egg and sperm together to make an embryo, implant it in a host who will bear (be pregnant with) the child). Or sometimes one of the partners will have had a child naturally with someone of the opposite sex, possibly before they came out of the closet.





Either way, the child will only have DNA from one parent, or neither if adopted. But that doesn't mean the kid isn't every bit as much the other partner's child, just as any adopted child is to his adopted parents.
They usually have a woman carry a baby for them with one or the other guys sperm inserted into her. Sometimes though they find it easier to adopt a baby in which the dna of neither man matches that of the baby.
a few ways... adoption is popular.





they can also use surrogates...





if a male couple, they can hire or a family/friend can volunteer to carry the baby, so the ';mom'; would be artificially inseminated.





if a female couple... usually one volunteers to be pregant and they pick a sperm donor - usually from a sperm bank, but can be from someone they know.





I know of a male couple, and female couple... who decided together to have children. 2 years apart from each other, both women were pregant, one from each of the men. All done by artificial insemination of course... and all 4 had legal custody of both kids.... last I heard things were good, and they actually bought side by side houses... so the custody sharing agreement has sort of been tossed out!!





the only thing I've never asked about is the kids' last names!! they're being raised siblings, but biologically are strangers.





then of course you have people, like a friend of mine, who thought he was straight, wanted to be straight, even married %26amp; had 2 kids. then at age 30 ';comes out of the closet';... so he and his ex wife have 50/50 custody of the kids... 4 years later... he lives w/ his partner, she with her boyfriend
You sound very young... I think you very well should ask your parents instead of stranger, Honey. By your question I can tell you're a young child, and if I can tell, a very dangerous predator could tell too. Be careful on the net, Honey, and next time, this would be a question to ask your parents.
my mom is gay. she had me with my dad.











(yes she was married to a man, she didn't 'come out' until she was like 30 or so)
Sometimes they've been married (in a straight marriage) and have children with that former spouse.





Friends of mine hired a surrogate mother.
Adoption, or if they're female, many times via artificial insemination.
Adoption is one way.
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