my question is this
should you both bring out every tiny scrap of the dirty washing ??
i mean everything ??Couples who have had marriage guidance ?
When you say everything is it strictly about the relationship or just about personality and pasts that have nothing to do about the reasons why you are in counseling? To have a successful outcome both parties have to be on the same page: Working this out and making it better. You know that saying ';Don't sweat the small stuff';? Well, that is sooo true. Focus on what happened to put your relationship on the line and what BOTH of you could have done differently. Remember-It wasn't just one thing that got you two where your at today. It was a build up of things. But remember, the most important thing is communication and know that they are not the enemy. Be friends first and I guarantee you will be great lovers second!! My husband %26amp; I have been married for 27 yrs. and have been there and done that. Wouldn't change a thing!
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