Why do some people very upset about big age differences between older men, younger women couples?

If they are not doing anything morally wrong and are not hurting anyone, I do not understand why some people are strongly adverse to such relationships! So if you are one of those people - please explain!Why do some people very upset about big age differences between older men, younger women couples?
its jealousy, pure and simple unadulterated jealousy.





i have been in that situation twice and the looks people give is discusting. these same people that looked at my wife and i lovingly holding hands and walking together in stores are the same ones that are walking 10' away from their spouses because of their sheer embarassmant of being with that person.





they say the words 'love knows no boundaries' but when they see real love that they don't understand or that is not the 'norm', they r the ones who immediately look 4 the boundaries...what an oxymoron.





do your own thing, after all these ppl who look down and judge u never came 2 u 2 ask ur opinion on if they should be with their spouse, now did they...so what gives them the right 2 b able 2 form an opinion and judge ur situation.





good luck and GOD bless.Why do some people very upset about big age differences between older men, younger women couples?
The older women are against it as it mean there are more competitors.





The older men who don't have a young babe on their arms are against it because it's like having someone flaunting a new sports car in your face when you are happy with your trusted family car.





The younger men hate it for obvious reason.





The younger women who are not attracted to older men find it repulsive, and those who are but cannot land one are just jealous.
The reason why some people think that way is because they think that because the age difference is wide that its only because of lust for younger or and older people because they may think that the age difference has to due with actually loving someone, meaning that people think that people ';in love'; with an older/younger partner tend to only ';love'; each other because of lust thinking they are older so they are more matured if you get my drift, or younger because they look better when there younger or because they think a wide age range can be involved in compatibility issues. People may think that wide age ranges may have different styles and etc., or that maybe they may not be actually able to last due to the fact that the younger one may just be going through a stage like puberty saying they love someone when they still don't fully understand there emotions in the first place.
Because such relationships usually have little to do with love.... Most of the time it's some dirty old man who wants a young thing on his arm, or a gold-digger so desperate for money she'd sleep with anything.





And in cases where they say they are in love... which may be true... it is usually not a ';healthy'; relationship. For example, a woman who feels the need to fill in a father role in her life chooses a much older man, not because of attraction or love, but rather because she's looking for a daddy. That's just repulsive.





I think you'd find that people in such relationships have certain backgrounds that lead them to make that choice in partner (whether it be abuse, abandonment issues, dependency, etc.)
older men have experience. younger women are easy to mulipunate. in my experience, i think older men pray on younger women because they are less experienced and easier to controll. why does a older man of worldly living want to be in a relationship with a women who has not experienced the same thing he has? it's all about control. any man who is educated and well versed and has a great career would never want to be with someone who does not have the same. control issues, insecurity, and lack of a great family upbringing would be a red flag to me. age diffence means nothing as long as the relationship has respect for one another. anything less than that is just plain wrong.
It's just creepy thinking about some dude who was already really old when the girl was only 5 or not even born.





If nothing else, it's not fair to either person because men already die younger than women--why would you want to exacerbate the problem? It's also unfair for any children the two might end up having together, because the children will unnecessarily grow up without their father.





Even if the man does live to a ripe old age, what woman is going to want to change diapers for both her children and her husband at the same time?
People just like that and plus you shouldn't be concerned as long as you happy! Some women younger are better then older women and vice verser! You can't stop people from what they think and decisions cause at the end it what makes you happy. You cant stop racism! Hey! I'm 22 my Boyfriend is 35 and we get alone very well.!
because some times it's creepy. Lets say a 50 year old man is dating a 23 year old girl, please tell me what they would have in common.... nothing.





an 18 year old and a 35 year old.. have nothing in common and a 35 year old has no business with an 18 year old...





and if it's under 18 then it's just gross.
Some do, some don't. But at the end of the day, who cares what others think? It is none of their business. As long at the two of them have their eyes open and they are okay with it themselves. That's all that matters.
Lots of young womans gets to have older man but if the man is a lot older so people start to talk much about it.


If you love that person and have good time so you dont need to feel bad about otheres talking negative.


all the best!
Nobodys business who anyone is with as long as they are happy. Is it wrong that im 25 and my boyfriend (who I live with and plan to marry) is 42? We love each other.
It does not matter to me as long as we are not in the pedophile age range.That is illegal and just sick.
because when woman comes to her prime, man turns unable to discharge his duties properly due to ageing.
Mostly women don't like it. It decreases their chances of landing a man.
No issues.
Love is love..it's not chronology
its just not right