Tuesday, January 19, 2010

For those gay couples, if you ever decided about adopting a child, would you...?

let your child be of any sexual orientation they desire, because ultimately, if not, wouldn't you be as close-minded as those who believe being gay is completely demonic? Just wondering guys and I'd like to hear your opinions.For those gay couples, if you ever decided about adopting a child, would you...?
Of course!


I would encourage them to like who they like... I certainly would not wish for them to be gay, just to be happy and to feel ok with their sexuality. If they were straight, I would probably feel better for them simply because it's an easier lifesyle to have.


I've never heard of anyone who's gay wishing for their kids to be gay or who would be disappointed if their kid was straight.For those gay couples, if you ever decided about adopting a child, would you...?
It's not what ';they desire';.





Sexual orientation is not something of what one you desire. If a couple (same sex or straight) adopts a child and the child turns out gay, that's ok. If it turns out straight, that's ok.





Parenting has little to no influence on a child's sexual orientation. If it did, then there would be no children who identify as gay because the straight parents would ALWAYS produce straight children (going by that flawed logic that says children raised by gay parents will always turn out gay, of course).





Your question is then rendered invalid........
I'm a lesbian and I have three children- all straight. My kids sexual orientations are their business, and I wouldn't presume to meddle with them about it. Only a real loony-toon would wish to go against his or her child's nature and raise him or her in a manner that isn't right for them.
well, given that we would have no room to judge, we are planning on letting our children be whatever and whoever they please. if our parents would feel the same way, we wouldn't be going through so much trouble with getting to be together right now :(
I have two children, and my only desire for them is happiness, regardless of orientation.








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Of course! Its been proven that orientation isn't chosen... but even if it was I'd STILL let my child be whatever orientation he/she wanted to be.

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