Why don't couples don't stay friends anymore after a break up?

ok i just want to know, why when couples break up, they dont usually stay friends anymore??? i mean after the break up, they just completely ignore each other. It really hurts! They just cut connection.Why does this happen???Why don't couples don't stay friends anymore after a break up?
because when a couple breakup , they have bad memories from their previous relationship.


off course this is not a general rule some couples stay friends/Why don't couples don't stay friends anymore after a break up?
It's hurts enough to break up with them. To hear their voice or see them just keeps on hurting. I personally never want to stay friends after a breakup because it's not worth it I'm sure the pain goes away after a while but, I just want to break ties and go on with my life. I have had very sticky situations with an ex before where I had to let go of a few other friends to leave him behind completely. That hurt worse but I'm happily married now so I consider it okay.
hi jEN j,,I THINK MAYB,EITHER,THE GIRL,OR GUY,IS HURT SO BAD OVER THE BREAK UP,THEY CANT HANDEL,SEEING OR EVEN,TALKING TO THE EX,,BUT MOST GUYS IF THE GIRL BREAKS UP WITH THEM,REALLY START HATING THE GIRL,,CAUSE THERE EGO IS HURT,,,peace
after a relationship ends, especially after two people put so much into it, it may be too hurtful, and too much work to pretend that everything is okay. that doesnt mean that they wont be friends later, but normally all couples need a ';healing period'; before things can go back to the way they were before.
I suspect it's because they wouldn't have broken up if they were still friends.
There is usually just to much history, baggage, unsorted issues and memories. People can't turn off how they feel just because the relationship ended and usually need space. Plus if it ended badly (cheating etc.) just seeing that person may be too heartbreaking.
Because they don't want to risk getting together again


Or they just hate each other so much





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hmm
There is a thin line between love and hate.
I have successfully stayed friends with most of my exes through the years so, its not ALWAYS like that.


It just depends on your personality and how you two broke up if you're going to keep in contact and remain friends.
I didn't talk to my boyfriend after we broke up because we broke on bad terms. We had an arguement because he planned to go to a festival with his mates on my 21st birthday....after the arguement I never heard from him again, he didn't even have the balls to dump me. That is why we didn't stay friends and I am sure there are a million different stories like this as to reasons why
Because very rarely is the break up mutual. Usually one person gets hurt and the one that gets hurt finds it very difficult to be friends. I feel like the friendship was part of the relationship you break up with me the friendship goes as well. That is me though.
Most of the time, one of the people still has deep feelings of love for the other. Its painful to see that person move on and be happy with out you, even more so once that other person starts to date. Even if both people move on with their lives and start to date the one that got dumped normally still holds those feelings for a long time.





Or on the other hand, if the relationship ends on bad terms, like cheating or someone beat up the other one, there's likely to be anger issues that remain in the place of love. Also humans tend to remember the bad parts of life and forget the good, so looking back on the relationship, it might be easy for them to feel like there's no point in still talking.





My case is the first one, I'm still deeply and madly in love with my ex and would walk through hell for her, she replaced me in less than a month and it caused a deep stab to my heart in which keeps me from being able to be ';just her friend'; or to even be able to speak to her at all dispite my feelings for her.
Probably because the break-up hurt so much that they can't bare seeing eachother anymore. I'm still friends with one of my ex's.