Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Please attention, Married couples, Please suggest me?

What is that thing in married couples, Which makes life Beautiful and color full, and absence of this makes clashes.Please attention, Married couples, Please suggest me?
1. Don't share secrets which will made clashes in future life. Specially belongs opposite gender.


2. And share your opinions before observing their attitudes.


3. And give respect their parents as your parents.


4. Don't criticise them before third persons and before any friends.


If you follow the above suggestions you will have golden life in your Future life.Please attention, Married couples, Please suggest me?
Trust, faith, sharing %26amp; caring etc.,
Love


Sex


Good Food


Money
1: Believe in each other completely.. if u lack this no point in marrying..


2: Respect each other: Respect his/ her opinions completely and also as an individual..


3: Don't restrict him/her: Life before marriage with friends should be kept alive and lively like before.. or anything else.Individual space and freedom is necessary


4: Money: money also plays important role


5: Time: Give lots of time to other.. Manage ur time to give to everyone including family, friends, relatives, each other as well..


WHEN u believe each other, LOVE is automatically there.....


When u have freedom and respect u have PEACE of mind.....


When u have money, SOCIAL life is nice as well........


When u give time ur personal life becomes absolutely beautiful.........
Love, trust, love, faith, love, understanding, accepting, patience, holding hands in the car, working through problems together, sharing responsibilities and loving one another's faults.





I have been married for almost 2 years now, life being married is full of ups and downs and circles. Every day is a trial and and every day is a triumph. You can never 100% avoid conflicts and clashes but you can talk through them calmly but then sometimes there will be some yelling.





Even a bed of roses has a few thorns every now and then. Just working it out and going through the bed just to find those thorns when they are found will prove to the the smoothest in the long run. Sure you will have times where you talk about your single lives before you met each other and you may even get jealous about that information but you really need to remember that it was before you and unless it followed them into this marriage there is no reason for the jealousy, just remember it is in the past and it shouldn't be such a big thing.





I have many things that I could get jealous of from my husbands past but I try not to let it get to me because its not worth the heart ache.





Just remember love, trust, faith, acceptance and understanding because no one is perfect and you can't expect them to be.

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